Here is what i have to say to you today: Self care is NOT selfish.
If you are able to give to yourself, you are able to give to others.
If you give to others you will get it back.
If you get it back it will fulfill you even more.
You will experience grattitude and you give more to others, because your cup is full and it’s natural for us humans to share.
If you share more with others, others will share more with you.
You will experience more and more miracles in your life.
A stranger pays your coffee.
Somebody picks up the key behind you that dropped out of your pocket and gives it back to you.
The old lady you meet tells you an amazing and heart warming story that she experienced in her life and you see her soul shining through her eyes meanwhile she speaks.
You feel her joy.
All this connection and sympathy fullfills you even more.
You feel uplifted and deeply happy and you want to share it with others.
You smile at random people on the street, just because you feel so good.
The people you smile at recognize you and your open and radiant energy.
They feel better, immediatly.
Maybe some of them long for a bit of human connection.
Maybe one of them is depressed AF and you literally save his life with your smile.
You never know who you encounter.
You never know who needs you.
But it all starts with you being good to yourself.
Fill your cup first.
You can not serve out of an empty jar.
Stop what ever you were doing, take a few deep breaths and ask yourself:
What do i need today?
What can i do right now to feel better?
Sometimes it’s just small things.
Adjust your body when you are sitting long hours at work.
Strech your neck.
Eat a piece of chocolate.
Don’t eat another piece of chocolate.
Take a nap.
Or a walk.
Text that guy.
Break up with that guy.
Whatever it is:
Make it a practice to fill your very own cup with goodness every day.
Fulfilled people don’t fight.
Fulfilled and mindful people don’t produce drama.
Eventually self care is anything else than SELFISH.
It is essential for the wellbeing of our WHOLE EFFING PLANET.
“If you want to save the world, save yourself.”
Drop an emoji if you agree or go ahead and share how you will fill your cup today.
It’r really the best thing i’ve ever created.
And i know you ponder if you should take the step or not.
I can not decide for you, i can only tell you this:
It is safe to invest in yourself.
And yes, essentially you do it for yourself.
But when you give yourself permission to care about your soul, your wellbeing and your happiness; you elevate everything that is around you automaticly with you.
Ripple effect, you know.
So, place your hands on your heart, take a deep breath and say it with me:
I allow myself to grow.
I allow myself to pursue my dreams.
I allow myself to be happy.
I allow myself to BE myself.
I allow myself to ELEVATE.
And now do it again.
And now go and book your discovery call with me.
Even if you decide not to join ELEVATION, my 6 month private coaching program, i promise you you will feel a shift after our call.
There i s nothing to loose.
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>> want to break free from old patterns and habits that don’t serve you any more
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A bit of my story.
I grew up as a divorce child (my father disappered over night when i was 4 years old) in an environment dominated by scarcity and lack.
My perspectives were, let’s say: tight.
I went through addiction, being bullied from my co workers and even my own boss, a physical and emotional abusive relationship, lonlieness in a strange country as an immigrant and many more huge or small everyday problems until i started to look inside and change my life by changing my mind and my perspective.
I encountered old beliefs, all sorts of uncomfortable feelings and memories, uncovered my destructive patterns and changed them – motivated only by a vision that i had for myself.
Sick of just living in the shadows; being broke, lonely and sad i was dreaming of a life full of connection and meaning.
By opening up for my hearts true desires and following it’s hints – first cautios and hesitant, which then quite fast flipped into adventurous curiosity – i allowed myself TO MAKE MY DESIRES MY REALITY.
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>> release everything that doesn’t serve you anymore and make space for your desires to come to life
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>> develop habits that support you in experiencing better relationships, job or business situations, health and finances.
>> add more excitement, adventure and variety into your everyday life
>> learn how to honour your soul
>> develop deep and lasting self love
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And much more!
You will also learn how to integrate this new way of being into your life without being scared about loosing family or friends, rejection and other possible weird situations.
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